Archive for March 2014

Canada, I Dare You to Be Cuter

Guys, check out this Canadian Duracell advertisement.  I had to actually put my hands on my face while I watched it, it was so cute.


Canada, I'm so glad to be your neighbor.

The BYU Groper IS NOT FUNNY

So if you live or work in the Provo area you doubtless know about the "serial groper."  He's this guy who's been going around assaulting women on or around campus and he hasn't been nabbed yet.  Now, perverts around here aren't exactly a new thing. It's actually a real problem in this area because people are so trusting and women here are even more afraid of reporting stuff like that than in most places.  It's just that he's gotten really famous because it's the same guy and he keeps doing it and getting away.

So then someone set up a twitter account for him and is making jokes about it.  I believe there are actually two accounts under slightly different names, one as the "serial groper" and one as the "BYU groper."  I'm not going to link them because I don't want to promote them.
Just... no.  I know you might think it's funny, and some of the tweets might be clever, but DO NOT DO THAT.  This is the kind of attitude that perpetuates the damaging culture we have about this sort of thing.  When someone shoots up a school, nobody remembers the names of the victims but EVERYONE knows who the shooter was.  It's a guaranteed way to get famous, and it's even more guaranteed now with the power of social networking.  When we pull stunts like this we send a message that criminal behavior will get you famous.  There are people out there who will think that's worth the risk of prison.
Not to mention it's just another example of our problematic rape culture.  This guy might not be raping women, but he's still sexually assaulting them, and the police are concerned that he might start taking more drastic steps, especially now that he's gotten so much attention and has gotten away with it.  More importantly, the more we trivialize and joke about things like this, the more we send the message that it's okay.  When you make rape jokes around a group of friends or laugh along with someone else's, you're sending the message to anyone who can hear you that sexual assault is something that can be laughed at.  That you accept it.  Here's an excellent study on the very topic.  It literally alters the way people perceive rape and it's terrifying the things they think are okay because of it. In the mind of a rapist, every rape joke they hear is a stamp of approval for their actions.
Not to mention you're making a joke of the experiences of these girls who were attacked.  Imagine that were you, and everyone was joking about it like it was no big deal when it may have been something traumatizing for you, and being too afraid to say anything about it.
Tonight at ward prayer I was talking to this guy, a very nice and good guy, telling him a funny story about how I got harassed at work at the candy counter by a toddler and he said, "Oh, for a second there I thought you were going to say the groper."  I assured him that oh no, it was nothing like that, just a hilarious kid, and then he then went on to say, "Oh yeah, but hey, that would have been cool if it was him, you'd be famous!"

I couldn't believe those words had just left his mouth. I had to give my brain a few seconds to buffer, during which time he sat there smiling like he was waiting for me to laugh.  I then very calmly and clearly told him that it, in fact, would not have been cool at all if I had been attacked by someone trying to touch me without my permission, and that it was super not funny that he thought it would be.  He was a bit taken aback, probably because he's not used to anyone calling him out on sexist nonsense like that, but at least he had the decency to look embarrassed about saying it.
I know the people who made these twitter accounts don't mean any harm, but it's the sort of attitude and culture that people need to be made aware is actually harmful.  Stop and think about what you're doing and the message that you're sending.  Rape is the second most under-reported crime in the United States.  We shame and blame the victims, and make jokes about and glorify the perpetrators in our culture.  This may be a small and seemingly harmless example, but it's part of it and it is not funny.
Sexual assault is not a joke.

[Sorry that's two pretty heavy topic posts right in a row about the same thing- it's just so important to me and it's been coming up so much this past week. I HATE thinking about what it must be like for anyone who's been a victim of sexual assault to see their friends joking about this, afraid to speak out because of the way it will change the way people treat them especially here at BYU... it just makes me sick.]

Slow Clap for Divergent

Here, read this article about something Divergent gets so so right.  [it discusses rape and rape culture so you have been warned].  [also there are some story spoilers if you care about that]

The article pretty much covers it all.  I pray for more and more stories that show women that they have the right to be respected and listened to and that show strong, likable, admirable men who respect women. Stories that show boys that doing so is what makes them manly, not the reverse.
I am a feminist because I believe that men are capable of better than what our culture tells them they are, and I appreciate Divergent so much because of that.

Princesses With a Body Count

In conjunction with our discussion of media violence on Wednesday and of princesses and gender roles on Monday, I would like to present to you the realization I had the other day.
Okay so my favorite Disney movies have always been Beauty and the Beast, Mulan, and Pocahontas.  When I was a toddler Beauty and the Beast was that movie that I watched ad nauseum, had memorized, basically worshiped.  I loved Belle because she loved to read and wanted adventures and had brown hair like me and thought Gaston was a jerk.  Also I loved the music. When Pocahontas came out I was five years old, and I was all about her super long hair and the fact that she loved the environment like I did and was the one who saved the boy.  I LOVED that.  Also the music was beautiful. When Mulan came out when I was eight I loved her for again being the day who saved the day, and in the end being a hero who still got to be a girl.  Plus again, music.
Changing gears though, there is a lot of violence in those movies for a kid of age eight and below to be seeing.  The Beast and Gaston battle it out on top of the castle and Gaston stabs the Beast in the side with a big scary dagger and there is blood.  Then the dude falls off the castle to his death. Yikes.
In Pocahontas, our girl herself is very "hey no don't fight each other that's stupid," but there's still plenty of fighting.  Our boy Thomas shoots Kokoum and emotionally scars a generation.  The two sides go to WAR with each other, even if the only gunshot is the one that hits John Smith in the end.  But man.  Shooting.
But then. BUT THEN.  There's Mulan.  I mean, yes, this is a movie based off the story of a war hero, so obviously there's going to be war involved.  But the fact the remains that Mulan goes to training camp and learns to fight, then goes to war with the Huns where she starts an avalanche that kills thousands of people.  I will say again: the heroine of this movie has a body count in the thousands.  Not to mention that we see the battlefield wasteland the Huns left behind when they decimated the imperial army, plus more fighting once they get to the imperial city.  That is a violent movie.
Does that mean they're bad movies?  No.  Do I think I am more aggressive as a result of being obsessed with them?  I don't think so.  I mean, I like to think I got the right messages from those movies, especially because I identified with them so strongly because those main characters embodied so many characteristics that I already had and/or valued.  But still- thousands.  Yikes!

Community Tropes

So I watch a lot of television. But here's the thing; I don't just watch the shows I watch. I engross myself. I talk about them with my friends. I discuss them on blogs. I read and participate in meta-analyses.

And okay, I also do plenty of mindless geeking out. I'm only human. And an enormously nerdy one at that.
So falling just behind dystopian societies, morally-ambiguous characters (especially ones in power), cyborgs, plagues, and complex female characters, one of my favorite things to find in a tv show is deliberate playing with tropes.
In case you don't know what I'm talking about, a trope in television is different from the literary ones you learned about in high school. Instead of being a piece of figurative language, a trope in television is a device or convention that commonly occurs in works of fiction. It's one of those things that has become unofficially officially a thing just through common use. It spawned from looking at tv shows, but now is used to describe any work of fiction, and diving into the world of tropes can be a really interesting and revealing way to look at the way we tell stories. A classic example of a tv trope would be "jumping the shark": that point in a show when things go downhill and the quality sharply declines yet the show just. keeps. going. Some other very common ones include "the antihero," "will they or won't they?," "ugly guy, hot wife," "jerk with a heart of gold," "give him a normal life"... and those are just the very very tip of the iceberg (eyyy see what I did there? Literary trope to talk about tv trope. Amazing.). There are literally thousands. Some of them venture into the realm of clichés, but that's not the idea.
ANYWAY.
If you are a fan of the show Community, you know that they are all about tropes. Pretty much every episode is devoted to exploring one or more common television tropes, and thanks to Abed's obsession with them and his fourth-wall-flirting descriptions, we usually know exactly which ones.


There was an episode where Troy and Abed got into a fight over whether they would build a blanket fort or a pillow fort, and the entire episode was formatted like an overly-dramatic history documentary.


Another one was a straight-up parody of Law and Order: SVU.


Zombie movies. Buddy-cop shows. Video games. Christmas specials. Glee. Old west. Terrible horror movie. Alternate timelines (my personal favorite).


You name it, they've done it, or at least referenced it. This season, the actor playing Troy was only in the first few episodes because he decided to leave the show to pursue his music career. The writers didn't even try to pretend it wasn't happening.



gif replacement due to language: Troy says, "That son of a *****!"


Okay, they seriously just had Abed tell us, "Look, we know this might suck because Troy was one of your favorite characters, but we're going to do the best we can. And also we're still a little bitter that Donald is leaving and we're going to make him apologize to you."

And it's not just the plotlines. It's the main characters, too.

Jeff, the jerk with a heart of gold, aware of his own good looks, works hard to be lazy, daddy issues, glue of the group... I could go on and on.

My personal favorite character, Shirley, the overly-sweet yet also sometimes emotionally manipulative mother type. Kills with kindness. Christian who accepts other religions but whoa hey actually doesn't really.



Don't get on her bad side.


To avoid this turning into an entire dissertation, I'll leave you with this: this show is a treasure and you should watch it and enjoy the genius of its writing, because it has everything that someone who is interested in actively participating in their media consumption could want in a tv show.

Also bad puns.




Really, O'Reilly?

In the video we watched in class about representation of women in media, much of its time was devoted to women in politics and news reporting.  At one point there was a montage men in news broadcasting saying ridiculously sexist things, and let me tell you... my rage was real.  Like my pulse was elevated and I had to just clamp my jaw shut to keep myself from yelling at the screen.
So along those lines, here's another gem from one of my favorite sexists, Bill O'Reilly.









I just... I can't... 

And the worst part is that this is not an unusual conversation for this guy and so many like him.  My father, who has four daughters, watches and listens to Fox News regularly.  I just don't understand how people can hear stuff like this and still take his opinions seriously.  But this is the sort of thing that we are constantly bombarded with, although most of the time it's more subtle.  It's no wonder our expectations and attitudes toward women in this society are messed up.



Representation Matters!

International Women's Day? 
A video and several lectures about gender issues in media?
What's that?  You want me to talk about feminism some more?
WELL IF YOU INSIST
What with the video "Miss Representation" we watched on Wednesday, the Oscars happening recently, and the fact that I am slightly obsessive, I've been thinking a lot lately about how the representation of women in the media is so skewed from the way things really are. And it's not just today's movies and television and whatnot; take a look at your history books and you can probably count on your fingers the number of times important women are mentioned. And it's not because women haven't done anything.  It's all just a matter of reporting, and when it's men doing the reporting, the women get shunted aside.  
Did you know that a woman was teamed up with Howard Aiken in inventing the computer? Yeah, her name was Grace Hopper.  She coined the term "de-bugging" when she had to get moths out of the computer's drives.
Or how about those guys Watson and Crick we all learned about in high school, who discovering the double-helix structure of DNA? Did you know that there was another person, a woman, who also helped discover it named Rosalind Franklin? Probably not.  Guess who didn't get a Nobel Prize.
Nettie Stevens and chromosomes. Chien-Shiung Wu and the fact that she overturned a law of atomic physics that had been accepted for 30 years, making the invention of the atom bomb possible.  Hypatia of Alexandria and her work in mathematics and invention of the astrolabe. 
I could go on forever.
I think Sandi Toksvig here sums it up nicely:
When I was a student at Cambridge I remember an anthropology professor holding up a picture of a bone with 28 incisions carved in it. “This is often considered to be man’s first attempt at a calendar” she explained. She paused as we dutifully wrote this down. ‘My question to you is this – what man needs to mark 28 days? I would suggest to you that this is woman’s first attempt at a calendar.’
It was a moment that changed my life. In that second I stopped to question almost everything I had been taught about the past. How often had I overlooked women’s contributions?
But why does it matter? you might ask.  It's not just about recognition or getting credit for things.  It's about the way it affects our current view of the world and the people in it.  
Dale Spencer in Australia used audio and video tape to independently evaluate who talked the most in mixed-gender university classroom discussions. Regardless of the gender ratio of the students, whether the instructor was deliberately trying to encourage female participation or not, men always talked more—whether the metric was minutes of talking or number of words spoken. Moreover, men literally have no clue how much they talk. When Spencer asked students to evaluate their perception of who talked more in a given discussion, women were pretty accurate; but men perceived the discussion as being “equal” when women talked only 15% of the time, and the discussion as being dominated by women if they talked only 30% of the time.Spencer’s conclusion, if I may paraphrase: you only think we talk too much because you’d rather we were silent.
I also read a piece last weekend on a little girl who decided not to bleach her skin after seeing Lupita Nyong'o at the Oscars.  Lupita decided she wanted to be an actress after seeing Oprah and Whoopi Goldberg in "The Color Purple." Whoopi Goldberg realized she could be an actress after seeing Nichelle Nichols as Uhura on Star Trek; to quote Whoopi herself, "Well, when I was nine years old, Star Trek came on, I looked at it and I went screaming through the house, 'Come here, mum, everybody, come quick, come quick, there's a black lady on television and she ain't no maid!' I knew right then and there I could be anything I wanted to be." 
Representation matters.

 Even this seven-year-old girl can see it:


Miss Officer and Mr Truffles

I know there's plenty of stuff that gets generated by the internet that could be discouraging... but things like this happen that help counteract that.
So a while ago someone posted this picture of a park ranger with a bear cub and some people commented on it on tumblr:
And it just kind of snowballed from there.





Until finally this happened:

Yeah, that officer now has a mug with a cartoon version of herself with the bear. 
The creative power of people and the capacity of the internet to be a platform for sharing that creativity makes me so happy.

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